Friday, December 23, 2011

Travel

Katie Going with the Flow in San Francisco

Last summer, my 16-year old daughter Katie and I planned a two-week trip from Charlottesville, Virginia, to Portland, Oregon. Our scheduled departure flight from RIC to PDX was delayed to the point  where we would not make our connection and make it to Portland in the same day. We would need to spend the night somewhere between Richmond and Portland. We chose to change our connection to SFO and had a half-day to explore San Francisco on our way to Portland. We slept in a hostel and walked around several neighborhoods the next day, before heading back to SFO to fly to PDX. It was an unexpected and unplanned part of our trip, and certainly a highlight!

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Flow Bistro

Inside a place where people read, talk, reflect, write, ask for food and drink: inside a bistro. This is a virtual bistro, where bistro-like behavior will be collected and displayed through the use of the internet. I will likely be alone here in the Flow Bistro for a while. I didn't ask anyone to meet me here and sometimes sitting alone in a public place to write can be helpful. So be it.

I've been attracted to the concept of flow all my life, though I haven't used the name "flow" for the experience for long, less than a decade. I tend to seek the middle path, somewhere inbetween the banks, where progress occurs, but is not a struggle, somewhere in the flow. When I am inside of a current in life, I feel good. When I notice this subtle joyful feelings, things just seem to be in synch, moving in a right direction. It may not be "the" right direction, but it is good, nonetheless.

Flow is a fine term to describe the experience, but when I'm noticing and contemplating flow, while it is occurring, when I am in metaflow, my interest increases further. Where to document the metaflow? I'll need to sit someplace friendly, welcoming, with minimal distractions, though not completely isolated. I like to write in cafes, coffee shops, or a small restaurants. A bistro sounds a little special and different, from my usual locations. This bistro will be transferable, flexible, willing to relocate. This Bistro Flow.

When I say "the flowbistro" all together, it seems to roll out of my mouth, with a smile flashed in the middle of the word. Maybe the spelling should be flobistro. I find myself playing with the term: flobistrimo, flobistriamani, flobistrouille. A French/Italian word, I'm sure. Who says a name has to be spelled the same all the time? She is a new place, so maybe a pet name will emerge for her.

Time to work on some other things. I need to make a flyer for an upcoming writing retreat here in Charlottesville. There is a deadline. The deadline is today.